Tracking benefits you not the buyer.
Either she thinks the total is worthwhile or not.
What you didn't say is whether you are looking at AIR or surface shipping. Please tell us it is the former.
Shipping by surface means weeks even months in transit and buyers can now open Item Not Received claims for up to 180 days.
AIR MAIL. AIR MAIL. AIR MAIL.
Tracking is nice, but fast is better. If you get both, great.
I am told that the Italian customs and postal problems are now a thing of the past. I don't ship there often enough to say.
Time for some thrilling heroics.---Jayne Cobb