Bidder Requests Cancellation

jaymor8
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Good morning everyone - what is the rule of thumb when you get a cancellantion request? I had a bidder that retracted their bid which was a big enough pi$$-off but then this morning I received an email from the original high bidder of the same item, saying that in the 20 minutes that she had been outbid, she found and bid on another pendant and she doesn't need two of them. I gave her what she wanted but I am wondering if I was stupid to do so??

LMK...

Jackie...
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deltone
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THANKS Jackie!!! Wow, it does sound so beautiful!!! I've been to Montreal once, back in the early 80's. Loved it. I've driven though, MANY times but only actually visited that one time and I really liked it.

My husband was in Quebec a couple of years ago, in the Mt. St. Laurent area (golfing)and he said it was absolutely beautiful, and one of the most beautiful spots he's ever seen. He is Italian and also speaks a fair bit of French too and he said that he was shocked at how rude the people who worked there were. It's apparently a major tourist area, with a lot of American tourists, and he said it was unbelievable how the staff in the restaurants and lodging area acted like they were putting themselves out. He couldn't believe how they could get away with treating people in this manner, yet they were so busy and that their nasty attitude didn't seem to hamper business. LOL

I found that in Niagara Falls Canada as well. I went there with a group of American friends and I was appalled at how poor the hospitality and service industry was in a city that is known all around the world as a tourist area. Takes all kinds I suppose.

I've stayed in many places in Quebec while driving through to NS on many different occasions, and always found very good service, and people who were very accommodating with speaking English. My mom lives in Ottawa and we often go over to Hull to the casino and they are very friendly there. It's been my experience that it seems that more French know how to speak English, than English speak French. It's so good to know how to speak the two languages.

A very good friend of my husband was born and raised in Montreal and he doesn't speak a word of French which I find so strange!!

My daughter in law (well, soon to be) is French, from northern Ontario. I had no idea that there are many French communities in northern Ontario. I had always just assumed that just Quebec, and parts of NB were French, but it seems that most provinces have different areas that have a lot of French.
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jaymor8
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Deb - Wonderful observation there re the 'more French folks speak English', because that is an absolute fact.

Montreal is a different kind of animal. They are so bilingual that language is never an issue. If you are met with arrogance there, it's not about language...it's just mean spirited folks. And...there are some of those everywhere. Niagra was the same experience for me, as well. That was a huge disappointment because I lived in Ontario for 18 years and I loved it and was proud of it. Niagra was a real let down.

There is a HUGE Fracophone community un in the Penetang. The trouble with that is...I have such a hard time understanding their French. Don't know why exactly...maybe it's colloquialisms that I am not familiar with. The same goes for NB French.

Where is this place that your hubby played golf? There is no Mount St. Laurent. Are you sure it wasn't Mont Tremblant perhaps??

Jackie...
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deltone
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Jackie........YES!! That's it!! DUH!!! LOL Mont Tremblant!!! He said he can't remember ever seeing such a beautiful place, but that he was very disappointed in how the service industry treated people, and he's not the kind of guy who is hard to please. He does want us to go there as a couple so they couldn't have been THAT bad! LOL

I think perhaps the different French areas speak a different dialect or something. I know with my husband speaking Italian, he's told me that in different areas, they speak quite differently and it's a bit harder to understand. I suppose it's much like accents. I have sometimes found it very difficult to understand SOME English, Scottish, or even Newfoundlanders. I have a few relatives married to Newfoundlanders and I have a heck of a time understanding them.

I myself always found that I'd been treated very well while in Quebec, and NEVER had a problem with finding someone speak English to me. I often hear from people about how they can never get help in English in Quebec (directions, restaurants etc.) but I can honestly say I've never had a problem with it. Just last week while in Quebec in some tiny little town I asked directions at a gas station and the young lad spoke very little English but he did his very best to help. I honestly think some folk go there with a chip on their shoulder, and it shows.

Not saying that my husband was, while in Mont Tremblant, as that's not his style. I guess they suffer from the same affliction as those folk in Niagara! LOL
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jaymor8
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Actually Mont Tremblant is a very French area and I would imagine that the ski areas would be fully bilingual but maybe not so much for golf. I mean up in the Laurentians, you are deep in French country so I'm sure it's a crap shoot as to how you will be treated. But, I would prolly guess that you wouldn't be treated the same way twice. At least I hope not!

We should really continue this conversation in the Drawing Room - folks looking for information might get really discouraged having to read all this crap, just trying to find something of importance!! LOL

Jackie...
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deltone
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Yes Jackie, you're so right. I have a tenancy to forget what thread I'm on!!! See ya over "there!" LOL
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