I feel vulnerable when I have a BIN auction of fairly good price out there. Any buyer (even a brand new account created solely to screw you over) can click on it and put you $10 or even $20 in the hole in fees. Maybe they bother to email and say "I didn't really want this", maybe they don't. Either way, you're out time, fees, and mental stability. EBay's Unpaid Item system is better than the previous system, but only barel made it useable. What they should have done was make it MUCH more automated. If you say a buyer isn't going to be paying you, you should get a FULL refund (or reinstatement of the auction as it was before it got BIN'd) and you shouldn't need to wait 7 (or more) days. Ten minutes after it ends, they say they don't want it, and BANG you've got a full refund and the auction is relisted.
Another beef along the same lines as discussed here: often when relisting an item that you waited 14-20 days to get your FVF back, it says "This item does not qualify for a listing fee refund if it sells." WHAT? I waited more than two weeks for nothing? And why doesn't it qualify? IT DOES! I emailed eBay about it and they actually gave me a coherant, hand-typed response! This was several months ago. The email is buried now, but basically the jist of it was this.
"In most cases, that message is wrong. Just ignore it. Always check your invoice every time an item that qualified for FVF return successfully sells. In the cases where your refund isn't received, email us with all the relevant information and proof, and we'll start the process of getting you the refund, regardless of what the message said when you relisted the item. We're trying to get the messaged changed."
Of course, the problem remains. Sometimes a FVF item can be relisted and it tells you that you quality, sometimes it tells you it doesn't. And sometimes you get your fee back, and sometimes you don't. Since there's no way to tell if the fee gets credited, you have to keep a close eye on your invoice. If you've got that much time and patience, good for you. Basically I just consider the failed refunds a loss of my time and money, and refuse to let it also be a loss of my sanity.
And yet, here I am, ranting and typing for 20 minutes when I could be managing my auctions. TSK TSK! 😛
*shakes my fist at eBay, Canada Post, PayPal, bad buyers, the US dollar, and some random people nearby*