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I cannot get a seller to respond to my messages. I have been trying to contact them regarding an item I bought. How do I cancel this order so I can order from someone else?
I put in a best offer and it was accepted. The cost of shipping was stated as $3.45. When I got an invoice from the seller the shipping was $8.55. Am I obligated to pay this shipping or should the seller honour what was originally state? I have been ...