eBay won't help me because I picked the wrong reason for return request, is this a joke?

[ggs9889]

I ordered some parts, it even has the green checkmark from eBay:  Fits your vehicle
But it does not fit my car, so I contacted the seller and start a return process, this is where eBay said it is all my fault, I picked the reason of return as:

it does not fit 

Instead of wrong item, that means as a clothe, does not fit means I choose the wrong size, so it is my fault, I have to be responsible for the wrong item. There is nothing they can do.

did you find this funny like me? 
eBay is becoming a joke

[marnotom!]

If you paid through PayPal or used a credit card when you made your payment, you should have a second way of getting a refund for a “not as described” item. Did you use either of these payment methods?