I looked on my detailed seller report and found I had 12 "cancelled sales" defects in the past year. ALL of them I canceled at buyer request and marked them as "buyer purchased by mistake or changed mind". The latest one was in June and the listing is still available; it says that I canceled because I indicated the item was no longer available, which I didn't.
I'm assuming the buyers did not reply to the agree-to-cancellation email on these, so eBay is changing the cancel reason.