Glenda
You sound like my type of woman. Scrape off the BBQ from last time and throw on the meat, order in some prepared salads and serve it all on paper plates (paper napkins if youre out of paper plates).
Good music, good company, good wine, good conversation and laughter and to heck with the tuxedos and lets all hop into the pool.
Actually if I could figure out a way to live by or under a palm tree, on a warm, sunny beach for the rest of my life, that is where you would find me and to heck with the dinner party entirely.
Malcolm