I know that you people are not employees; however, IF you are going to hold yourselves out there as helpers, it behooves you to really read the questions and think about them! Then you will give answers that are helpful.
I do know that eBay and PayPal will not just accept my saying that I paid. I say that I have paid and the buyer accepts, etc. My question was dealing with my need to know how to get to Ebay to prove to them I paid.
I had already tried the suggested manner and got nowhere. I finally found, on Google, that the way to get to the phone #'s is to click on various topics for answers until the phone # shows up!
That advice helped me!!
I was in a loop with the unpaid balance page and did NOT GET a way to contact eBay by phone or email, etc.
I guess the Google commentators have suffered and therefore understand the frustration with not getting to "customer service". The "community" helpers seem more interested in defending eBay and issuing platitudes, about facts already known. Perhaps the Google souls are interested in offering information and the helpers, by and large, are pedantic and on an ego trip.
I really like the positive parts of eBay: great sellers, good and really interesting items, safe environment, etc.!l
I really dislike the negatives: terrible customer service (check out comments about this just about anywhere), unreasonable shipping charges (sometimes), often unhelpful and damaging comments from the "community' helpers.
Now some of the community people are very helpful; it is unfortunate that other of the group are not.
All in all one is left to figure out the various pitfalls on one's own when starting out. Suggesting that one is not a good customer and intimating that one should be blocked are hardly helpful when one is trying, in good faith, to un-mix a mix-up.
One last thing: there is a good cop bad cop thing with the sellers and eBay. Sellers tend to decry the shipping charges and say they have no ability to change them and sellers say they have not opened the unpaid cases but ratheR eBay has. Yet eBay says it is the sellers. All in all this is a dysfunctional relationship!
Perhaps the "community" builders could actually try to build a functional relationship between the sellers and eBay and between themselves and buyers who really need help.
I am slowly figuring out the mistakes I have made and avoiding repeating them; but this is not due to much help from your 'Answer Center'! That is a misnomer if there ever was!!