Don't get your knickers in a twist.
Tell her to return the unsatisfactory items for a full refund. If when the items arrive, she is correct in her complaints, you should ethically also refund her return postage.
Do not offer a partial refund. If it's good enough to keep, it's good enough to pay for.
Do not refund before the items arrive and you have confirmed that they are the items you sent.
But do plan to refund. You can relist with a corrected description.
It's business, not personal.