Hi john;
what a sad message. i'm very sorry for your situation...money makes the world go round, and is a great motivator for many...especially huge companies like Ebay that continually raise fees...and why? because they can. its that simple. for all the sellers leaving ebay, i'm sure (guessing) there are more and more jumping on board to make up for the loss (or at least some loss)...also, as ebay becomes more and more popular, more buyers are jumping on board too, continually making more and more money for ebay. there WILL be a levelling off in growth for ebay...EVERY company naturally has its climb, peak and descent...
you're not the only one. i don't have to pay as much as you, but it sure hurts me too...sometimes i can't believe how much i pay monthly to ebay...my god, in some cases, its as much or more as a mortgage payment or a monthly rent!! its kind of scary when you think of it like that...
i don't know that ebay would ever LOWER their listing fees...its hard to imagine, being the leader in online auctions, it would be a slow rise for competitors to reach their level of reputation and trust.
i hope you find another venue where you can turn a decent profit, i don't know how feasible it would be for you to change product lines, but sometimes that's what it takes to stay competitive and make good money. good luck...
Kat