I answer 98% of my emails. Once in a while when I seem to get 200 in a day and a couple of them seem like they were authored by 2 year olds, I may skip one but for the most part I answer almost all,all the time.
Selling musical instruments, I often get people who have no interest in bidding let alone buying. You can tell by their emails as they start throwing out all sorts of technical terms, showing what they know, or how little.
I received one of those the other day in relation to an intermediate violin I was selling. I took the time to answer the person, not their questions so much as reply to them that perhaps what they were interested in, as suggested by what they were looking for in the violin per their questions, would be best found in something else I carried and not the violin listed on eBay.
I was polite but I stated that it seemed they were looking for a more superior instrument which would of course command a higher price.
I received a 300 word essay on how they (husband and wife team) were professional violinists and teachers and well-established eBay buyers and how they did not intend to insult my instrument but they felt insulted in my response in that I did not answer any of their questions and that is how they judge a good eBay seller and one they would trust.
I responded and said had they indicated their professional background and that they were looking for instruments to recommend for their students, I would have been more than happy to make some suggestions however they should know (as professional violinists) that the price of the instrument they were looking at could not have some of the features they asked about for the price I was selling on eBay.
You know its like someone looking at a stock Chevy Malibu for sale and asking if it can go 0-100 mph in 1.3 seconds, if it has GPS, 12 speaker surround sound, plasma TVs with DVD player etc,
Do you answer their questions by saying NO to everything or do you try to accomodate them with something that meets their expectations.
In other words, I have what those people wanted in another model but they werent satisfied, they wanted me to tell them that the instrument I was selling on eBay didnt have what they wanted.
They havent responded and it has been 2 days.
Am I nuts or are they nuts, or is the whole world nuts?
Malcolm