Refuse it. It'll go back.
Then file a SNAD to get a refund (you cannot file an INR because you've refused it (That counts as an acceptance to ebay).
The reason for the SNAD is that seller did not ship in the method promised.
I'm not 100% sure this will work, btw,, but it's your best bet.
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