I'm sure she's lying, but wanted to know if there was a chance paypal never confirmed her payment. Anyone else have a problem like this?
Yes, I have! eBay (or PayPal) changed my email address somehow on a couple of weeks worth of listings and, when customers hit the Pay Now button, payment went to a non-existent email addy. I realized it finally when I went to the item page and noticed that the email address shown there that the buyer had sent payment to, was different from my actual address.
It was some fun holding a few newbie's hands through the process of canceling a PayPal payment and repaying by way of a PayPal generated invoice instead of eBay's! Some of them just got frustrated and decided it wasn't worth it - couldn't blame them and we agreed on a "mutually agreed..."
Glenda