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I'm away at Xmas. How do I put that I am away from ...to...and your purchase will not be mailed until.... I see some listing have this as a banner. Any help greatly appreciated.
I have 8 buyers who have not paid rangeing from 3 weeks to 1 week. How do I get them to pay?
Instructions say click on "Take action " button but I don't see that in my case details. Only give me notice to contact buyer. I have no need to contact as she has now paid & I have shipped. What next? Thanks.
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