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I have put in a request to return item. Contacted seller and seller said no to return. How to get someone from ebay to email or speak to me. According to ebays money back guarantee I qualify. Help? When or should I involve Pay-pal?
I put in a request to return an item I received which and I purchased on ebay. What I would like to know is do I also have to contact the seller or does ebay contact the seller?