knorr
I always say the same thing after reading a post similar to yours. I feel the same way about getting a retailatory neg when the Buyer doesnt pay for NO reason HOWEVER I have been a NPB on 2 ocassions and would be very upset if eBay removed my right to leave the Sellers a neg.
Its something that as Sellers we sometimes forget and I always try to put myself in the position of the other person, the Buyer.
Imagine the Buyer who wins an auction and the Seller changes the terms or refuses to sell the item at the price the Buyer won it at. Shouldnt the Buyer (now a NPB) have the right to give the Seller a neg and warn other Buyers about that Seller and their tactics?
Or imagine the Seller telling the Buyer the item doesnt come with all the parts listed, AFTER the auction ends.
Again, the Buyer has a right to walk away from the deal and leave the Seller a neg and warn other Buyers about the Seller.
The system is NOT flawless. The problem with it is that the FB system is not that important to eBay or to most Buyers as it is fairly easy for them to get a new buyer id. As a Seller, our eBay reputation hangs on keeping a certain average regardless of the validity of the negs and remarks.
Unless eBay employed tens of thousands of reps to look into each individual complaint over purportedly improperly left negs, it isnt going to get any better and that is the fact of the matter.
Your solution is generally the first one that always comes to mind and is, unfortunately not fair to Buyers who get burned by Sellers, and that in turn is unfair to the legitimate Sellers and we are stuck with it.
Malcolm