and most of my purchases never get here. I have been refunded for some items but it did take so much messages tome and effort. I am trying to resolve my issues with the sellers because i want to avoid opening cases since pretty much 90 % of my items dont get here.
Hon, you've got to start opening those cases.
You have only 30 days after the last estimated delivery date for an eBay dispute.
It is completely robotic.
The only tricky bit it the suggestion that you contact the seller.
The contact should be "When was this shipped? What service was used? What is the tracking number?"
The only acceptable responses from the seller are a prompt refund or a useable tracking number.
If you don't get that -- DON"T get into a conversation about it-- ask eBay to step in and escalate to a Claim
If the seller cannot prove delivery (not shipping, delivery) you will be refunded.
the refund takes from a few hours to a day or two.
If the item arrives later, you can return the refund using Paypal's Send Money service.
We women are raised to be nice and patient.
But it's time to be nasty.
The fault may not be the seller's. But it is your money and his responsibility.
