on 06-22-2012 04:38 PM
Hell Sean,
My first question is why you would send an item that expensive by regular mail. No matter, - now you see why it's not a good idea. In order to maintain your seller protection you are required to send things with Delivery Confirmation. Some items like cheap dvds are not worth the bother, but you should never put more money at risk than you are prepared to lose.
Your money may be presently on hold for a lot of reasons, - an infrequent seller, the high dollar amount, your shipping fee DSR is 4.1, . . .
You say you sent a second cd with Delivery Confirmation, yes? That means in all honesty you have sent not one but two items to this person. Are you therefore able to enter the DC number in the claim she has filed? That's what paypal wants - a Delivery Confirmation number.
That she did not pay for DC in the first place is beside the point. On an item that expensive you ought not to offer a choice. Since it benefits you and not her, a buyer would have to have rocks in her head to choose to pay extra for your seller protection. She's already got buyer protection.
So, -- take a bit of time and follow through to the German site and phrase by phrase, copy and paste them all here:
The translations will not be great, - they never are, - but it will provide you a rough idea of what is expected of you. Having a hissy fit that you do not speak German may cost you 300 bucks, if it is not already a lost cause. You may be able to add your Delivery Confirmation number and save yourself, ... with any luck.
And yes, your friends are correct. It's one of the beauties of a paypal account, - for people who have a diminished ethical capacity - freebies galore on ebay. Ebay/paypal will have to somehow close this gaping gap because it is getting worse. Thieves disguised as buyers file false 'not received' claims. Thieves disguised as sellers don't send the item and then delay the newbie with lies until the 45 day deadline has passed.
I hope you are able to give your story a happy ending. See if that DC number will work, - it may be your only chance. And in future, for an item that expensive send only with Delivery Confirmation. In this case you should have absorbed the cost yourself. Because when it comes right down to it, it was you and not her who was too cheap to spring for the extra.
Best of luck. 🙂