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ok 1 more question, i sold an item on fri(to a buyer with 0 and from Lithuania) they havent paid yet and on mon i sent an invoice then today i asked them to pay...can i just offer it to the next bidder or do i have to wait to hear from them???
im a new seller and was wondering how i offer the same shipping to can and the u.s.(5$) but charge anywhere overseas more(10$)is there and easy way???