on 08-03-2022 03:45 PM
You can refund through eBay before you receive the money. Refunds can be done from pending payments. That's how it works if you are buying shipping through eBay as well...shipping is paid from pending funds. If the funds are deposited before the amount is deducted from pending payments, then they will bill your secondary selling fee source.
Don't.
You should be able to use Calculated Shipping with UPS and more recently FedEx.
A quick look at a template using the older Advance/Business selling form doesn't show that-- but that may be because I rarely use anything but the postal system.
But the answer is Calculated Shipping-- someone else will have to show you how to use it.
I'm also cranky enough to discourage promising refunds. Getting one unexpectedly is better than saying you might give one. It comes under "underpromis and overdeliver".