is there any way I can receive a text message alert when a seller is trying to alert me?

[cmdk89]

I have a very poor memory and I have even often gone to buy something on ebay to then find out I didnt have the money on my credit card for it. I dont remember doing this 95% of the time. I am the only one using my computer. I do not wish to receive unpaid item restrictions any longer and feel badly for the seller. I dont always get on the computer as often as id like either. I am a stay at home mom of three with alot on my plate. But anyways I was wondering If I could some how get ebay to send me a text message or something to alert me when a member from ebay is trying to contact me. Hopefully then it wont go unnoticed