Running out of time, requested expedited shipping on a BIN purchase but slow response, can i retract

[alice_falling]

I purchased a BIN item that I need for next Friday. I have not yet paid as I requested the cost for expedited shipping. I have now sent 3 emails over the past three days and I am running out of time (also my shipping options are steadily getting more expensive).  Can I retract my bid or cancel the transaction?  This buyer also only has 6 feedbacks... i should have followed my instincts.

[pierrelebel]

You purchased this item less than two days ago:

Purchased on:
24-Sep-13 10:52:10

If you are in such a hurry to get it, why don't you pick up the phone and call the seller in Vancouver?

[alice_falling]

Thanks for your reply, I have spoken to him by phone. He tells me a family member is using his account to sell the item (hmm) and they will respond right away, still no response.

[alice_falling]

Any one else?