Fees are not 65% so something odd must be going on or you are misunderstanding something.
Someone here might be able to help in you give more details. Which extra features are you being charged for? Are you promoting your items?
As far as the shipping, when you print a label you are not charged at that time. It can take a few days to a couple of weeks to be charged. Perhaps that is what you are seeing.
Are you able to show any screenshot of what you are being charged? Block out any personal info.