The seller is a boob.
He doesn't want to sell outside the USA but somehow has shipping to Canada enabled on his listing.
hmm.
Is it possible that he got signed up for the Global Shipping Program by default? A lot of sellers did.
If that is the case, he would be shipping to Kentucky for forwarding.
The listing will say Customs services and international tracking provided. And you will pay appropriate Canadian duty and tax as part of your shipping fees.
This notice is not viewable if you use a mobile device to shop.
Ask him for a Mutual Cancellation and be free of this transaction. Just agree to it promptly.
You are, if nothing else, not out any actual cashy money. Just time and emotional wear and tear.
There will be no fallout for you.
You can leave appropriate Feedback . The most effective feedback is calm and factual.
'Advertised shipping to Canada but doesn't. "