A a pair of brand new shoes I purchased was returned to the seller.  I contacted the seller numerous times letting him know of the status of the return.  Upon delivery of the item back to the seller, which took forever, I contacted him again asking for the refund
but no response, nothing.  I cannot file dispute on paypal either, because the payment was made more than 45 days ago (Sept 30).   Now I don't have either shoes or money.  What are my options?  Thanks