know seller no longer with ebay thank you please help
Is the seller Not A Registered User (NARU)?
That means he has been kicked off eBay for bad behaviour.
While it is possible that your item may arrive, it is unlikely that you will get what you ordered.
Go to your Paypal account.
The Resolution Centre is at the top of your account page under Tools.
Open an Item Not Received dispute.
You will need the number of the Paypal transaction.
The first suggestion (not an order, a suggestion) is to contact the seller.
Since he is NARU you cannot do that.
Escalate to a Claim.
In the claim say that the seller is no longer allowed to sell on eBay.
This will speed up your refund.
Paypal will try to contact the seller and ask them to prove delivery (not shipping, delivery).
If the seller cannot prove delivery, you will be refunded in full.
You will need three separate cases for the three separate payments.