NO. Accept that we all make rookie mistakes. (And I did it too last night, after over 5,000 sales on various IDs. I'm a slow learner.)
If you weigh and measure the book beforehand, in metric, and used Calculated Shipping, this will not be a problem in future. Your customer will see the shipping cost to his doorstep, based on your dimensions, the service you chose, and his postal code.
Is the buyer in a location that you did not give a shipping price for? In those cases, you can charge the appropriate shipping and eBay will back you.
BTW, when you set up shipping, do add a small handling cost for packaging. Bubblewrap ain't free.