If I am correct.. By including shipping with the cost of the items... total income is higher.
This in not really correct....example (simplified)
Selling price $10 / your cost of item $5
shipping $3 / Actual shipping cost $2.50
Gross Income = $13
Net Income = $5.50
Selling Price $13 / your cost of Item $5
shipping FREE / actual shipping cost $2.50
Gross Income = $13
Net Income = $5.50
Bottom line....there is no difference unless you are going to eat some of the shipping cost, in this case both your Gross & Net will be reduced by the same amount.
Here's an example of that scenerio
Selling Price $10 / your cost of Item $5
shipping FREE / actual shipping cost $2.50
Gross Income = $10
Net Income = $2.50 (I'm not liking the look of this!)
* note that nothing is factored in for any other fees and expenses which would obviously affect the Net Income figures.
I think it's the term "Gross Income" which is confusing you. If you would refer to it as "Gross Revenue" perhaps this would not happen. The two terms are interchangable and equally valid for accounting purposes

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