11-12-2015 11:12 PM
11-13-2015 12:35 AM
That is a very long delivery period. Should we assume the item was coming from Asia?
The 'please wait' followed by the 'We'll send a replacement' are pretty common scams from there.
For future use: NEVER accept a 'replacement'. It is likely it will never turn up, because neither it nor the original ever existed.
A refund can be processed in minutes, if the seller has the transaction number and the date of purchase.
And eBay does have a deadline on Disputes-- as you noted 30 days after expected delivery.
However , Paypal allows six full months (180 days) for Disputes, so go to your PP account. The ResolutionCentre is on the left of the page.
And, if that doesn't work out, go to the credit card I hope you back your PP account with (PP is just a useful mediator) and phone the 1-800 number. Ask the clerk about a chargeback.
Some cards are better about this than others.
The advice to communicate with the seller is not bad, nor is it really meant to stop the Dispute. But most sellers are honest and do want to clear up problems.
Another note for future use though: put a deadline on communication too. If you don't have the item or a refund within a few days of your contact with the seller, go to the Dispute without further communication. And if you are offered a replacement, escalate to the Claim and get your refund.
Finally, if the seller left you any feedback (unlikely but...) you can leave a Response indefinitely. The most effective Responses are calm and factual. "No item, no refund, played me till deadlines passed." for example.
11-13-2015 03:06 PM
As mentioned by the other poster, you should file an item not received with paypal as they have a longer time frame to file claims.