Since we are not allowed to 'name and shame' other members (in part because of the possibility of mischievous and slanderous words about an innocent member) your post is likely to go poof.
Before it does, you should know that you can call the 1-800 Customer Service number on the credit card you actually paid from. Paypal is just the processor and they have a shorter (45 day) deadline than credit cards (60 to 120 days) .