Hello 'shak-iram',
<<I paid for 3 items but one item has been shipped .2 are still in cart and shows I have to pay>>
Are you sure you paid for all 3 items? Items still in your shopping cart are not yet paid for.
So what do you see in your Purchase History? To find this, you can use the drop-down menu at
the top of the page where it says My eBay. Items you have paid for will be in your Purchase History
and the dollar sign icon beside them will be deep blue.
Items in your Purchase History that you have not yet paid for but have committed to buy (meaning
you are required to pay for them) will have a pale grey dollar sign icon.
Items in your shopping cart that you no longer want can simply be deleted.
<<I don't know how to take my refund for those 2 items back from paypal>>
You can't. Any time you change your mind about a purchase, if it has not yet been sent the only
thing you can do is ask the seller if he will cancel the sale and refund you. Most will tell you it's
too late and that the item is already in the mail.
But check your paypal account first to see what the Transaction History tells you. Does it indicate
that you paid for all 3 items?