On those unpaid items I hit the buy it now to many times and I deleted them.

[reallynicestamps]

First contact the seller(s).

You don't do that here. This is a member to member advice and chat board.

The seller can cancel the unwanted items. This may involve a Request for Mutual Cancellation which requires you to actively accept the Request.

The cancellation releases both of you from the Transaction. Both can leave feedback. "Thank you for your help with my error" would be appropriate.

If you don't do this, the unhappy seller may open Unpaid Item Disputes on each listing.

If you do not pay, you get a Strike against your account.

Most seller have automatic Blocks against bidders with two or more Strikes, so bidding on eBay will be much more difficult.

[dmil8030]

Hello '2005larry1965',

Buying on ebay and then not paying is considered really poor form.  You can see for yourself what ebay has to say about it:

http://pages.ebay.ca/help/policies/unpaid-item.html

Ebay even has a page outlining how you can best avoid Unpaid Items:

http://pages.ebay.ca/help/confidence/avoid-unpaid-items.html#buyers

For now, though, perhaps if you ask your seller for the cancellation she will be kind enough to let you off the hook.  You are obviously new and new people make mistakes.  Just be sure it does not happen again.

Good luck.