
01-04-2014 12:25 PM
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01-04-2014 12:38 PM
01-05-2014 12:27 AM
01-04-2014 12:32 PM
Did you contact the seller about why the item hadn't been shipped before leaving FB?
01-04-2014 12:33 PM
01-04-2014 12:38 PM
01-04-2014 01:53 PM
I agree: It was the sellers place to contact you about shipping late and not yours to ask why.
That said: Do you really care if you're blocked?
I suppose it matters for some categories (I wouldn't know), but I buy a lot and have been for many many years and I don't know if I've ever bought from the same seller twice.
Does it really matter that the seller has blocked you if for some reason it makes him or her feel better?
01-04-2014 02:10 PM
@snoverine wrote:
No, as a buyer I expect the seller to indicate to me any potential delays as a courtesy. It should not be the buyer's responsibility to follow up on the delivery. Btw it was not the post that delayed shipping, but the seller not sending earlier.
Limey's question to you had nothing to do with delays in the mail.
While I agree that the seller should be responsible for letting you know of potential delays, sometimes things come up that are beyond the seller's control such as family emergencies. I would have at least done the seller the courtesy of making sure everything was okay on his end before leaving feedback. Neutral or negative feedback is considered a "last resort" when you can't work something out with a seller.
Having said that, I also have to agree with the view that it seems odd that you'd want to continue doing business with this seller if you feel that they're not pulling their weight.
01-04-2014 03:20 PM
I still believe that delayed shipping notification should include a short note saying: "sorry for late shipping, busy Christmas". That would show me some care.
Rest assured I will not buy from this seller for the same reason: the quality of customer service, so I don't care if they block me or not.
I buy frequently from previously known and proven sellers.
The question still remains open: should such a threat be reported to ebay?
01-04-2014 03:46 PM
Let it pass.
You got your coin.
A seller can block anyone for any reason they want.
Ebay won't do anything over such a frivolous matter.
01-04-2014 03:50 PM - edited 01-04-2014 03:50 PM
What is it about the message that makes you "feel threatened"?
01-04-2014 09:46 PM
Unless there is something you have not said, all that happens is that the seller has informed you she doesn't want your business.
Since it is unlikely that you want to deal with her either there is a meeting of minds here.
Sellers are allowed to Block any specific member we want. We can also automatically Block bids from entire categories of members, such as those with Unpaid Item Strikes or without Paypal accounts. I have the entire continent of Africa blocked.
You could send her a message,"Thank you for blocking me. This has been a very uncomfortable transaction and I am pleased that I will not accidentally buy from you again."
My food is problematic. - River Tam
01-05-2014 12:27 AM
01-05-2014 07:32 AM
@snoverine wrote:
I feel threatened by the message, no matter how polite. Any opinions?
Maybe seller felt threatened by you leaving negative feedback. Honey, not everything is all about you.
01-05-2014 08:39 AM
@aqyera wrote:
@snoverine wrote:
I feel threatened by the message, no matter how polite. Any opinions?
Maybe seller felt threatened by you leaving negative feedback. Honey, not everything is all about you.
More likely the seller felt he could get the feedback removed by threatening the buyer.
01-05-2014 08:46 AM
"he could get the feedback removed "
Way too late for that. The negative feedback were given in October.
I see it as a prudent step by the seller to protect his reputation. He simply does not want to do business with that buyer. Not worth the risks.
01-05-2014 09:52 AM
01-05-2014 09:58 AM
"feedback was given recently."
You are correct. My mistake. I was thinking about another thread. Sorry about that.
On the other hand, I must state that I always block a buyer who leaves negative or neutral feedback (it does not happen very often).
01-06-2014 01:34 PM