I usually ask seller if they can combine and if they won't then don't bid or buy from those sellers.
As I always have said it is a conspiracy on eBay's part for getting more $$$ with GSP that way and also with the so-called import charges which I have never been dinged with the import charges weekly, so why the heck should I start to paying the so-called import charges by eBay. It may be okay for very expensive items but not on small items like photos, DVDs, books, magazines, etc.
Other thing if sellers won't opt out of GSP, I always tell them "your loss and good luck". Many of them told me that they lost many regular customers and also many potentinal buyers because of that.