I paid this ítem , but I don't undertand why you said I did not pay for it
These are buyer and seller forums -- who said you didn't pay?
The seller? Contact email address is with your purchase information.
eBay? They don't read these forums. Contact them by selecting the Help & Contact link at the bottom of this page, then going to the Need our assistance? section, select Contact us and step through the questions to narrow down your problem/issue. This will give you a phone number to phone with activation code OR in some situations eBay will phone you.
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Did you pay using PayPal? Go to paypal and look at the purchase details there.
(1) If you are paying from your bank account (and it is not backed by a credit card) it will take days for the money to be transfered to paypal before the seller is be paid. That info should be with your paypal account.
(2) Sometimes a seller may have the wrong email address specified for payment.
(3) A new seller may have your payment on hold because they are a new seller -- that is their problem, not yours.
There are other reasons, those are the most common.
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