08-01-2013
07:14 PM
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08-01-2013
11:44 PM
by
kh-leslie
After a mildly heated discussion in this board. I decide to check out the items of one of the other posters. I saw an item of interest and sent two message to get shipping charges to my house. I then received a reply that this is not only childish and un businesslike. But it begs the question, does this violate any eBay policy?
08-01-2013 07:44 PM
08-01-2013 07:50 PM - edited 08-01-2013 07:51 PM
08-01-2013
08:27 PM
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08-01-2013
09:18 PM
by
kh-leslie
Blocking buyers does not violate any ebay rule, regulations or policies.
Sellers can block any buyer they want to for any reason they want.
08-01-2013 08:43 PM
Many users who post in here have 2 or more different ID's, one for selling, one for buying, perhaps even a different one for the dot.com boards. I know that some prefer to use one ID for posting exclusively, which is certainly their choice. Most times, these boards provide a helping hand for those with questions or problems. Not sure what the problem was with the previous discussion, but a lot of people read these boards. If you come across the wrong way, you may find yourself on blocked bidder lists. Similarly, if I asked an innocent question, and a seller came across as condescending or ignorant, I would certainly not buy anything from them. But, ultimately, it is the individual's choice whether to block someone, or not buy from them.
08-01-2013 09:16 PM
Agree, answer is immature, you struck a nerve 🙂 But there is no violation. Also board argumentations are pointless, there is never concensus after heated discussions, just frustrated "ignore" clicking and BBL updating. I yet have to see the heated discussion on this board that would produce "you are right, I was wrong" from one of the two loudest parties.
in that discussion you were defending to the bone a seller making his choice, and buyer duty to respect it. your seller made choice of not selling to you. an irony.
one of the people who were opposing your argument and implied customer is king, then replied "in your face". another irony.
08-01-2013 09:21 PM
08-01-2013 09:25 PM
08-01-2013 09:27 PM - edited 08-01-2013 09:27 PM
08-01-2013 09:47 PM
In many ways, sellers are much more at risk these days than when I did some selling many years back. I sold inexpensive items, used video games, relatively cheaply, $10 including shipping. Never had 1 item not received claim. If I decided to sell again, I doubt I could do the same thing without worrying about how many fraudsters are out there. I would want some kind of tracking on the parcel, but the cost would be so prohibitive that nothing would sell, at least for lower value items. So, you take a chance, and hope. And, even worse, sellers can no longer leave negative feedback, so your only recourse would be to comment on buyers feedback and hope people actually read it. Ebaying in Canada can be a daunting prospect, with postal costs the way they are, for lower value items. Higher value, say $50 and over, not nearly as bad. Most of us here would love the USPS cost options, but we have a larger country in area, and only 10% of their population. Our expense is therefore not surprising.
08-01-2013 09:53 PM
08-01-2013 10:55 PM
@73rhc wrote:
@ Inuk
Could you please have the decency to explain yourself.
Can't speak for Inuk, but when I read the post in question, it says "Strikes me that you are being viewed as harassing a seller."
The way I read it, Inuk didn't say that you were harassing the seller, only that the seller may have felt harassed. See the difference?
08-01-2013 11:00 PM
08-01-2013 11:19 PM
08-02-2013 03:00 AM
Are you saying that the seller did not have the shipping price on their listing and that is why you asked?
I do have shipping prices listed but when I get asked for the cost anyway, I answer politely.
However, if a seller who was arguing with me on the boards suddenly asked me for
a shipping cost that was already listed, I would probably think that they not serious and were
just trying to get a reaction from me. Perhaps I would be wrong about that but seriously, why
would that seller who already knows where to look for a shipping cost ask me for the cost?
08-02-2013 03:01 AM
Okay, here's a simpler way of stating Inuk's post:
Perhaps the seller thought you were harassing them.
Since you're an adult, you'll appreciate that this is more a statement about the seller than you.
08-02-2013 09:52 AM
What marn says. Seller viewed you as a threat. Seller did not want to have any correspondence with you. Seller thought, rightly or wrongly, you were out to "get" them. Seller does not want to have anything to do with you, yet, you pursued them. View your actions anyway you want, seller vieweed them differently.
Do not judge your actions as you intend them. View your actions as how the other party receives them.
You contacted someone who did not want to be contacted by you. To them, that could be harassment. They took their appropriate action, for themselves.
08-02-2013 10:03 AM
"But it begs the question, does this violate any eBay policy?'
To answer your question specifically, a seller deciding to block you does not violate eBay's policy.
That answers that question.
However, your post raises two questions.
You wrote "I saw an item of interest and sent two message to get shipping charges to my house"
1) Why? Did the listing not quote a shipping price?
2) Why two messages?
08-02-2013 10:08 AM
08-02-2013 10:09 AM