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12-10-2005 01:32 PM
There must be a problem. I sent your money via paypal, Nov. 28th at time- 15:40:30
To a xxx xxxx - seller skivversnfld
my transaction mumber xxxxxxxxxx - again sent you money same day of bid, 11/28/05. I have a copy of billing history, payment made
following this reponse was a second:
I sent you the MONEY - AGAIN! PAYPal said, YOU click the send Refund. The same day 11/28/05, one hour after I first sent you the tranfer.
So I checked and sure enough the payment was again made with an insufficent shipping amount. about 1/3 of what it would cost to ship the 1kg to the US. Not once did this buyer address the problem of why the payment was refunded . I received two other emails sent to my email address both saying item has been paid for SHIP MY ITEM.
I have not caved, I refunded the second insufficent payment. Explained patiently once again why , and requested politely where they received the total in shipping cost from, It was not on the invoice. I also sent links to the Canada post website for small packet prices to the Us. Two shippings choices were given. I feel if I cave in this person would be sure to do this again and again and again to many sellers.
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12-11-2005 12:03 AM
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12-11-2005 10:21 AM
I have just completed the paypal money request linked with the auction number. Politely explained once again, that partial payments are not accepted, and items are shipped upon receipt of payment in full. Hopefully it will all work out , but somehow I see a negative coming...
this buyer is really difficult and does not respond to emails.
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12-11-2005 05:15 PM
I have shared the same experience many times. In the past I would always refund the payment and request the payment be made again with the correct shipping cost.
Lately, I have decided not to refund the payment. Once you have their money in your hands they are more easily compelled to ante up the balance of the payment.
You will incur another fee from PayPal but I have found that it is a lot easier to get them to pay up this way.
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12-11-2005 07:46 PM
I have used REQUEST MONEY several times in similiar situations with a very high success rate. I also tacked on an extra .35 for the fees. In the notes I include: Outstanding Shipping Fee- $3.25 (or whatever it is) Paypal fee for using this service- .35 Total balance owing- $3.55. In most cases they pay it promptly.
Joy
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12-14-2005 06:14 AM
this is an update.
I sent the money request as suggested.It worked!, they did not use my money payment request link. That one still remains unpaid. But they sent a fresh payment through , in full. No communication has been recd . Just the payment. My fingers are crossed that hopefully this one will work out.
This is such an uncomfortable part of the selling process. I myself also tried in the past to send a partial payment reminder with a past transaction. no communication was ever received. after two weeks. I got a negative for keeping the money and not sending the goods. That is why I now refund the money immediately. Their item/s show as unpaid.
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12-14-2005 07:49 AM
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12-15-2005 08:06 AM
The question arrises of how long do you hang on to the merchandise, or the payment, once it's been paid for and the shipping hasn't? After a certain amount of time you can no longer be negged but should this be the guideline for ethical conduct?
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12-15-2005 09:33 AM
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12-16-2005 12:05 AM
I used to say in my ad descriptions that if your registered email address is not current it will be their responsibility to contact me first after winning my auction, but I removed it since hardly anyone reads more than 2 or 3 lines of an ad anyways.
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12-16-2005 04:24 AM
Frustrating isn't it? Go check out my feedback. This person made up their own shipping cost which was $1 different than the figure they came up with. They asked how they could get me the diff. I asked if I could refund and reinvoice. Sure that would be great thanks! I think it's over and done with, everybody's happy. Um, no, apparently not! lol Numpty!! They make it sound like I asked for $1 over my reported shipping cost. sheesh
I had a buyer of a silly craft pattern do the same thing. Sent me 3 payments all with their own shipping cost. I kept refunding with a note. Thanks for your payment however you've paid the incorrect shipping costs. Shipping was noted in the auction listing and end of auction email I sent you as $x or $y. Here is an invoice with $x shipping. It took her three tries to get it right. geeze!!

